All our lives we search for that ONE person who could become your partner for life. The person you would want to have a family with. The person you would want to grow old with.
Not a lot of people actually hit the jackpot. But I am not talking about those people. I am talking about me… and my jackpot.
Being the eldest in the family and somehow being a natural introvert, I have always had the fear of interacting with people. Networking and speaking to people was never my best attribute. In fact one of my biggest fears was being in a crowd. I hated crowds or social gatherings.
Amazingly, I compare myself from that time and the new me standing today. Proud and head held high, booming with confidence. Very much of an extrovert and very open to speaking to new people and developing positively on public speaking skills. Where did it come from?
The most amazing change is that I no longer have that fear of crowds. That fear has taken a complete opposite direction and now I am actually afraid of being lonely. Talk about revolutionary changes.
That’s what a great partner can do. I am so dependent on her for everything. I am so happy that she is my wife. In her, I have found my everything. A friend, a listener, a confidence booster, an inspiration.
On this great date on which we got married, 4 years ago, I wanted to let the world know that I am crazy about my wife. Happy Anniversary Love. May we have many many more, filled with happiness, joy and pleasure. Aameen.
6th Feb 2009. 4 years and many many more to come… Inshallah:)
Read The Anniversary Post at MAYG & UTP
25 Responses to The One
gh
February 6th, 2009 at 2:02 AM
That’s why people go for two or three. More confidence, more revolutionary changes.
Ever thought about second marriage?
Usman Latif
February 6th, 2009 at 3:13 AM
May you get much more than you think.
Now, am seriously thinking that would I get a partner for whom I can say the same words.
Zios
February 6th, 2009 at 4:34 AM
Mubrooook!!!!
MashAllah!!!….a good wife is really one of the biggest blessing in life.
May Allah bless all the family with love, peace and happiness always.
Raza
February 6th, 2009 at 7:15 AM
Mubaraks my friend!!
Marraige is a big transformation isn’t it? I cannot even imagine thinking about it right now!
mayya
February 6th, 2009 at 8:09 AM
Happy Anniversary to you two. Time flies doesn’t it!
Amir
February 6th, 2009 at 8:22 AM
Congrats on 4 years to both of you. May you be blessed with many more years. Ameen
That was a great post btw
Lubz
February 6th, 2009 at 8:53 AM
Lovely!
Totally loved your post. May God bless you both with decades of happiness and contentment with each other
Minerva
February 6th, 2009 at 12:28 PM
Awww… congrats
Ali
February 6th, 2009 at 4:23 PM
Great post! and congrats on 4 years for both of you
Specs
February 6th, 2009 at 6:50 PM
*sniff*
now that was awfully sweet. She’s lucky to have you… and you are lucky to have her!
rayshma
February 6th, 2009 at 8:58 PM
aww… congratulations!!!
here’s wishing you many more indeed!
touchwood!
mubi
February 7th, 2009 at 1:07 PM
aww few men openly express their love and appreciation for their wives like you did…and thats so great!
happy anniversary!
Dinky Mind
February 7th, 2009 at 3:36 PM
Bon anniversaire
May all your wishes come true
utp
February 7th, 2009 at 7:32 PM
Thank you so much people for making the special day even more special-ER!!! ehehhe…
appreciate it…
mandira
February 7th, 2009 at 9:00 PM
happy anniversary you guys!! herez wishing u yrs and yrs of happiness n togetherness.:D
An ILLuS|On
February 7th, 2009 at 9:20 PM
Happy Anniversary..best wishes & regards: )
leemz
February 7th, 2009 at 9:33 PM
oh wow! you won’t believe but i had an ear-to-ear smile as i went through it all, awww!
Wish you too all the very luck in the world, khush raho, khush baash raho, and a sooper dooper salam to bhabhi
Happy belated Anniversary
Sidhusaaheb
February 8th, 2009 at 12:49 AM
Nazar na lagay…
UTP
February 8th, 2009 at 2:20 PM
NAZAR na LAGAY for sure…
thanking everybody again…you people are just GREAT!!!
jingoist
February 8th, 2009 at 7:39 PM
Wallah…. Mubrook ya Habibi
n Happy Anniversary!!!
UTP
February 9th, 2009 at 2:22 PM
heheh thanks JINGA LALA!!
gh
February 11th, 2009 at 4:18 AM
utp pa ji! gal gool kar gaey oo tussi. bary afsoos di gal aa.
Sidhusaaheb
February 13th, 2009 at 7:28 PM
@gh: I suppose UTP’s reply would be that…ikkoi saambhni aukhi ai…meNhgaayi de zamaanay vich…
utp
February 14th, 2009 at 1:43 PM
@gh – heheh…kaddi kaddi aisa wee karanra paunda aay!!!
@sidhu paa ji – hahahah…ik wee boht aay!!!
D
March 22nd, 2009 at 10:39 PM
Congratulations! May there be many more such realisations over the coming years